So - Father's Day.
And the lessons are Abraham dismissing Hagar and Ishmael (son),
and God saying he will make it alright (what world does that make sense in?)
and Jesus saying "I have come to set a man against his father and a woman against her mother"
and "whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me."
I was asked today what I have learned about being a father -
+that someone else's success
brings you greater joy than any of your own,
+that someone's else's struggles
bring more anguish than any of your own,
+that someone else's suffering hurts more than your own,
+that in a family you simply love each other,
not one person more (or less) than another.
Is that how it is for you, God?